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1 Out Of 150 Children Suffer From This

Mila SidmanWhen I was approached by Dr. Mike Woo-Ming about his latest endeavor, which is to help and create awareness for an important cause that’s also affecting him at a very personal level, I wanted to do my part.

I could simply write about it and tell you what’s going on. I certainly couldn’t write about the issue specifically because, fortunately, it doesn’t affect my family.

But I recently discovered that this issue hits very close to home for one of my coaching students, Mila Sidman. Mila is also a great writer. So rather than writing a blog post myself on a topic I know little about, I decided to ask her to write today’s blog post as a guest blogger, instead.

You’ll soon realize why…


The latest statistics show that 1 out of 150 children have autism (up from 1 out of 10,000 just two decades ago).

I believe there are many more that have mild cases of autism and remain undiagnosed. Often times, they go through life being labeled as “strange” and in school they may be seen as troublemakers or “bad.”

For families living with autistic children there is a daily struggle to do even the simplest of tasks. Getting ready for school in the mornings or going out to dinner can be an ordeal.

And raising other “normal” children in a household with an autistic child means siblings often get pushed to the side or have to just deal with it, as the autistic child needs so much extra help and attention.

I know of these experiences all too well.

My 9 year-old-son has Asperger’s Syndrome also known as high-functioning autism.

Ever since he was a baby, I knew there was something different about my son. The toddler years in our house were filled with turmoil, many everyday things like going to the supermarket or park would send my son into an extreme crying or screaming fit. At times he would hide and just rock and cry.

I felt helpless as a mother and thought I must be doing something wrong because I couldn’t comfort my child.

Around the age of 5 or 6 things got much worst.

School can be a scary place for an autistic child. Some of his teachers were loving and understanding, but others weren’t. I’ll never forget one substitute teacher saying to me, “Your child acts like he’s possessed, something needs to be done to stop him or he will grow up to be a monster.”

You see my son started screaming because he couldn’t take the sensory stimulation from an experiment they were doing in class (he can’t deal with loud noises).

At the age of 7 we had to pull him out of the public school system because he was having night terrors about going to school and was being bullied by his peers. He would cry and scream all the way to school and back. I had to drag him out of the car and leave him in a terrible state. One day, I couldn’t face it anymore and didn’t send him back.

It was a struggle but I knew I needed to find another solution.

My son turns 10 in a few days and he’s slowly learning to deal with many of his symptoms. He can now control his ’stimming’ to a certain extent. Autistic children tend to stim and flap their arms and hands at certain times.

He’s also a very kind child and has learned to play the piano. He loves computers and enjoys playing with his younger brother and sister.

I do worry about the future. What will it be like when he’s a teenager? Children tend to become less accepting as they age and peer pressure kicks in. How will he cope when he has to live on his own? Will he ever go to university or get a good job? Will he ever get married and have children of his own?

And if all that isn’t enough to worry about, parents of autistic children have other battles to fight. To get the right education and treatment for their child, they have to jump through what seems like an endless array of hoops and red tape.

Most insurance companies don’t cover important therapies autistic children need such as occupational or speech therapy. In our case, we have to pay out of pocket for ALL expenses.

We have speech therapy costs, occupational therapy, and school costs. The public education system isn’t geared to give autistic children the help and support they need, so the choices are find a specialist private school or let your child pay the price in other ways.


Where other families are saving for college or family vacations and retirement, all our money goes to get our son the extra help he needs… thousands and thousands of dollars just so that he can have a somewhat normal life and not fall through the cracks.

And we’re lucky.

I can sit at my computer and work till 2 or 3 in the morning to make a little extra money, but many other parents don’t have a way of paying for these things and unfortunately their children don’t get the help they need. What will happen to these kids in the future?

When I heard Dr. Mike Woo-Ming has put on an event to help autistic children and their families, I was very touched. Dr. Mike himself has a 7 year-old-son who has Asperger’s syndrome.

Through hard work and a strong will to make a difference and ‘do something’ to change things, he’s brought over 50 top marketers together for a good cause.

That cause is Marketers on a Mission.

These marketers have donated some of their best-selling courses and materials for this cause. The internet marketing community never seizes to amaze me; this is such a generous and giving group. And this latest event cements just how much people care.

By donating to this cause, you’ll be helping many families who are struggling daily to help their children lead a normal life. All proceeds 100% go to the Pioneer Learning Center, a school specifically that helps children on the autism spectrum including Asperger’s, ADD, and other social integration disorders.

Please open your heart and help. You’ll feel good, make a big difference to a child’s life, and get some very valuable educational marketing materials in the process. Go there now…

Click here to visit MarketersOnaMission.org.

Thank you, Mila, for such a great article. I equally ask you to do the same. Go check out the website and find out how you can be a part of this worthy cause.

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  1. From Marketers On a Mission

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  1. From Terrance Charles

    Yes, that is for a good cause… I have 2 family members with autism so I know first hand how it affects them… I’ll definitely support marketers on a mission…

    Author's Website April 15th, 2007

  2. From James D. Brausch

    Mila,

    I understand your worry.

    Autism runs in my father’s family and I was diagnosed with severe autism when I was a child. I worry that one or more of our own children will have the same challenges because of the genetic link in my family.

    It is true that I had a hard time in High School (and elementary school). I was constantly picked on. I had a hard time controlling my emotions and cried a lot in elementary school. I also had the problem with making random noises and flapping my arms… or withdrawing and rocking in a corner… an day-dreaming… not being with what was happening.

    It is true that I was unable to complete High School or college. However, I have a very abundant and happy life now.

    Remember that autism wasn’t even diagnosed until fairly recently. Asperger’s is an even more recent diagnoses. A hundred years ago, those with autism received no treatment and were even more disdained by schools and society.

    If you think about it, many of our greatest men were probably afflicted. Certainly Einstein’s story sounds a lot like autism. So does Tesla, Edison, and perhaps even Benjamin Franklin.

    Einstein was thrown out of school… for probable retardation.

    Perhaps your child may not be able to attend University (I wasn’t).

    But perhaps your child is destined for greatness as well.

    -James D. Brausch

    Author's Website April 16th, 2007

  3. From Diana Walker

    Oh, Mila — you are such an amazing lady - I’ve watched you online with all your businesses, and your expertise, and have been in awe of all you accomplish.
    I had no idea of your son’s autism, and this has definitely raised awareness -
    I think you will help many people by sharing your story.
    Diana

    Author's Website April 16th, 2007

  4. From Marc Ketchel

    This is an FYI to everyone who is interested in the latest information to cure autism. A doctor friend of mine recently introduced me to a wonderful woman who has made positive changes in the lives of hundreds of people through her natural dietary approach to autism. I finally met her and some of the children she has affected and was very impressed. If you are serious about helping your children you would be well advised to contact Donna Gates through her website, http://www.bodyecology.com. She has dedicated her life to changing that was we view autism….seeing is believing. Michel I hope this is appropriate and you will let people know about the wonderful work that Donna is doing. Warm regards,

    Marc

    Reply Reply http://www.bodyecology.com. She has dedicated her life to changing that was we view autism….seeing is believing. Michel I hope this is appropriate and you will let people know about the wonderful work that Donna is doing. Warm regards,\r\n\r\nMarc’); return false;”>Quote

    Author's Website April 17th, 2007

  5. From Mila

    James, it’s always inspiring to hear from an adult who as a child suffered from this but has gone on to live a happy life, thanks for sharing that because it does give me a lot of hope.

    Diana, thank you for your kind words… I really appreciate it and I hope that by sharing my story I’ve helped this cause in some way.

    Author's Website April 17th, 2007

  6. From Franck Silvestre

    Mila,

    I didn’t know that autism was touching so many children. I hope you all the best with your child, may God cure him. This is a great cause.

    Author's Website April 18th, 2007

  7. From AnnaLaura Brown

    I think this is great. I have an autism spectrum disorder myself so of course I am all for anything to support it.

    Author's Website April 19th, 2007

  8. From Kim Snyder

    As a mother of a 22 year old who happens to be a high-functioning autistic
    boy I understand your fears of when he gets older. My son works best within a box.. things laid out for him so he has something to follow.. He didn’t do well in college because there was nothing there to made him do his work.
    When we found out the doctors told us to put him in a home with other children his age (he was three!) and forget about him. He is my oldest son!
    If you saw that child now thanks to the help he has gotten over the years, he
    has learn to deal with the loud noises, other people who don’t understand
    him you would of never known how he would hide from the world by rocking back and forth for hours on the floor. Or dump out his toy box, fill it back up and dump it again and scream if you dare try to help .

    They do get best with love and understanding there is hope for all stages
    of autism. I raise a son where there was no real knowledge of how to work with him, I did the best I could and the funny thing is, I feel he was given to me for a reason and I would never give up on him. My other son is a great
    help with his big brother and you have to take him on if you mess with
    his brother.. Is that love or what?
    Love them and they show you what you can do to help them help themselves.
    May God Bless You for the work you are doing with your son.. they are a joy no matter what..

    Author's Website April 20th, 2007

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